Blame

Blaming is the good reason to stop fighting within self. It is more like your loose, and try to put on others by showing the frustration and irritation on the dear and near ones. But does this really help to overcome the situation?. Don't think so. Probably for a short time, it might definitely aid to unseen the real cause of the problem,. Once you start introspection, the flaw is in you. One shouldn't have listened to others and  gave up for the happiness of them and end up suffering. Rather would have been strong enough to be straight and decided what is good and the best of would have followed. Now there is only option left out is to start holding hands of others and seeking help to restart the show again from the beginning. This is the fact of some lives.

Facebook

Just was going through FB and found so many updates. It is an amassing social networking site to be connected with the friends and family.

Good to be a member of it.

Journey from 2009 to 2012

Well, this is my first blog for the New Year 2012. As I believe in “Never the late”, finally have something to share.. This year has marked special for me by change in status.  

Let me recall the year 2009, wherein I was freak out. Finally got a engagement ring and changed my status as “Married” by the year end. While 2010 gifted me with a elevation in work profile and was more of workaholic. Early 2011 was packing for a short trip to Tokyo and visited few of the places and reached back home safely. This year had in store something more exciting which would reap in 2012. And finally early 2012 had a great news for my family and a change in status as Mother.

So this four years had bought three changes In my status from:

Single ---- Married ----- Mother. 

 

New Year - 2012

Art of India - Mehandi

Friends

Just got into my page to pen and the thoughts are just flowing in freely. We would miss so many good friends in life with the time. We have no control on it, instead to just sit and rethink, Wish those golden days would come back again and we can have fun again. 

I would like to thank my dear friends who had helped to come with a new personality all the together. One of them bought me up to this stage of blogging, wherein I had talents but he recognized and pushed me to do it.

I would really miss his blogs as he is the one who inspired me to start blogging and he has in turn stopped but I  hope one fine day to see the content in his page.I have been blessed my god with all dear friends, who had entered my life with the definite purpose by god. I must be really thankful to them for all the good moments shared with me and to share their shoulders to throw out my sorrows. This reminds of having valuable assets in life which we can acquire but just comes as a package with time.

Welcoming New Year - 2012

PDA Profile

Su is friendly, extroverted, tends to be liked and to gain the approval of others. She is also by nature very sensitive to her own needs as well as those of others. She can be convincing due to her charm, her friendly approach, her speaking skills and her ability to respond rapidly to questions, comments and objections.

She is not aggressive by nature. She uses humor to avoid antagonistic situations. Su tends to emphasize harmony and similar interests among people when in a situation of persuasion. By nature, Su likes variety and change, of tasks as well as people.

She has the ability to express herself well and normally speaks eloquently about subjects that might seem tedious or too specific. She can generate enthusiasm among others regarding new programs and projects.

Su will be anxious to be useful, of service and to soften situations with difficult and negative people.

Although Su can maintain a calm and peaceful appearance, she is quite an energetic individual. She tries hard and is concerned about doing a lot and doing it right. She is not willing to sacrifice quality for quantity.

Su will be motivated with clearly defined responsibilities. She enjoys popularity and public recognition, for her humor as well as her specialized knowledge.

Funny

Evergreen Thought

Evergreen Thought

Miscommunication - Good One

Beautiful Story, one of the best forwards

A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which said: "I am blind, please help." There were only a few coins in the hat. A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see the new words. Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy. That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came to see how things were. The boy recognised his footsteps and asked, "Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?" The man said, "I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way. "I wrote: 'Today is a beautiful day; but I cannot see it.'"Both signs told people that the boy was blind. But the first sign simply said the boy was blind. The second sign reminded people how fortunate they were to have their sight. Should we be surprised that the second sign was more effective? Moral of the Story: Be thankful for what you have. Be creative. Be innovative. Think differently and positively. When life gives you a 100 reasons to cry, show life that you have 1000 reasons to smile. 

Silver

Silver

Slowly, silently, now the moon

Walks the night in her silver shoon;

This way, and that, she peers, and sees

Silver fruit upon silver trees;

One by one the casements catch

Her beams beneath the silvery thatch;

Couched in his kennel, like a log,

With paws of silver sleeps the dog;

From their shadowy cote the white breasts peep

Of doves in a silver-feathered sleep;

A harvest mouse goes scampering by,

With silver claws and a silver eye;

And moveless fish in the water gleam,

By silver reeds in a silver stream.

- This was a poem written by Walter de la Mare. This was part of my school book in class nine, which was recited by me and won a prize too. Today I was just browsing and found this poem, thought to share on my blog so that I can see all the time.

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Peace of Gyaan

Some peace of Gyaan given to me by my so called friend, so funny:

·         You need to correct your thinking.

·         First of all you need to build the patience and cool mind

·         As you are in hurry always, that is the reason you are getting into this state

·         You need to learn to be calm and focused, rather than thinking on other thing

Good Thoughts

Hi All,
I was just browsing and found very good thoughts to feed my mind. I am sharing the same with all...This is said by Gautama Buddha..

We are what we think

All that we are arises with our thoughts

With our thoughts we make the world speak or act with an impure mind, 
and trouble will follow you, as the wheel follows the ox that draws the cart

We are what we think

All that we are arises with our thoughts

With our thoughts we make the world

Speak or act with a pure mind, and Happiness will follow you, as your shadow, unshakable

How can a troubled mind understand the way?

Your worst enemy cannot harm you as much as your own thoughts, unguarded

But once mastered, no one can help you as much, not even your father or your mother

Bin Laden

Just can't believe that Bin Laden was shot dead and  he is thought to have lived in Pakistan compound for 'five or six years'. It has shocked most of them. So much of coverage in media... 


God save humanity...

Cloudy sky

The weather is cloudy, me at office in front of window and working on my comp, and just thoughts flow in me.

Life at times seems to experience loneliness. So many people are around but still no one has time for anyone. Probably I might have also done this kind of act, when people wanted me to share their happiness, sorrows, chit chats etc…  It feels so good about this cloudy climate and to sit under a green tree and watch those small birds flying above you..And have someone with whom you can open up your talks and  go on and on with talks..

Imagination of this gives immemse pleasure. Wow, such a good feeling of relaxation.

Happy Women's Day

Write up for today

The more you run away, I will chase you,

The more you hate, I will trouble myself

The more you trust, I will die for you

The more you understand, I will always support you

The more you care my emotions, I give you everything

The more I expect, I tend to cry and

The more I miss you, is all because I love you...........

Good Lines for Today

• Be bent and you remain straight. Be vacant and you will remain full. Be worn  and you will remain new
• Always laugh with the people and never laugh at people
• Meditation is on a series of objects and concentration is on an object